Man plans, God laughs? what do you think?

I read an interesting article called my sister’s ticked that I’m not happy about her pregnancy here:http://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/family-and-relationships/david-eddie/my-sisters-ticked-that-im-not-happy-about-her-pregnancy/article1909762/

   There’s a women who has a sister in a pregnancy again. She’s complaining that her sister misunderstands her kindness because she believes it is not right time for her sister to raise one more child. David Eddie suggests her to be more supportive rather than compare the life of her to life of her sister. And she should use her strength to a good use.

                   It is really a kind of thing (is that sort of a dilemma for you?) that we meet every day: I think she should be like this but not like that; she’s wrong, she should listen to me bla bla bla……some people like David Eddie would suggest you to accept it and be more supportive, because that is not your life, out of your business. But some would say: I agree, she should be like that, that’s good for her….. Telling the truth or leave it alone and stay calm? Hum……what do you think?

                    Even though we shouldn’t gossip too much, I think, we should tell the truth: that’s really not good for you! However, if that is someone who you love, it would be harmless if you said: “no matter what decision you are going to make, I will always support you”. Moreover, it’s really a matter of attitude. Everyone has their own liberty to live what he want, judgments sometimes will only make things get worse. Anyway, if you want to be happy, then you must not mind that too much, and be forgiving, so that you will be really supportive and earn more love from other people.

                    It really depends on what you value.